In this link see Sue Monk Kidd and her daughter give the commencement address at Columbia College SC.  Read to find your necessary fire  for yourself and the world!

From The Secret Life of Bees – One day August says to Lily, “Listen to me now. I’m going to tell you something I want you to always remember, all right?… The Black Madonna is not some magical being out there like a fairy godmother. She’s not the statue in the parlor. She’s something inside of you. . . When you’re unsure of yourself, when you start pulling back into doubt and small living, she’s the one inside saying, ‘Get up from there and live like the glorious girl you are.’… This Mary I’m talking about sits in your heart all day long, saying, ‘Lily…. don’t you ever be afraid. I am enough. We are enough.’”